About two months ago, I ventured out on a new journey with a network marketing company called It Works. We sell health and wellness products, but are best known for our "skinny wraps." It has been quite the learning experience for me, but I'm starting to get at least a little momentum at it. (Wanna help with that momentum? Check out our product line at davedrake.myitworks.com.)
For any of you not familiar with the term "network marketing," it is also known as "multi-level marketing" or derisively called a "pyramid scheme." Well-known examples of this type of company are Advocare and Mary Kay. The goal is to sign up people to try your products or to sign up people to sell your products. For you to succeed, you have to have people under you who are successfully growing their business. The better the people do that you sign up, the better you do.
Because of the structure of the business, the most successful people in network marketing are "coaches" -- people who invest in the people below them, ensuring their success. My "coach," Ashley Sinclair is an absolute rockstar, as evidenced by the number of people that are successful on her downline. She has grown her business beyond even HER wildest expectations, and it's because she leads by making those people below her successful.
There's a lesson in here for any of us that manage people. Sure, it might be easier and safer and whatever else to just look out for ourselves, to ensure our own success. The problem is that, even in corporate America, a leader's success is contingent on the success of those beneath them on the organizational chart. Want to be the best leader you can be? Help the people below you on the depth chart to be successful and your success with take care of itself.
Carefully-Laid Junkyard Plans
Some thoughts on life, mission, church, Jesus, family, theology, etc.
Saturday, February 13, 2016
Sunday, February 7, 2016
Thoughts from the Weekend
I have a lot of thoughts running through my mind today. It has been an eventful weekend, with a funeral and a wedding shower yesterday and an amazing church experience today. In between, my 14-year-old daughter lost her mind and tried to flood the house. And the Super Bowl commercials are about to kick off in a couple of hours. Quite the weekend.
I would love to give you the lowdown on all of these events, but my goals are ONE blog per week, not FOUR. The flooding would be the easiest story to tell, but that doesn't mean it's the best one to tell. The shower story is complicated by a backstory that needs to be told at a later time, if at all. And I'm still processing the funeral of the late, great Roberta Carman. But something that happened at that funeral leads me into my story today.
We all thought Roberta was going to die over five years ago. So much so that we devoted an entire Sunday morning 8:15 classic service to remembering her. Her family was mostly in town, so we asked them what songs she might want sung and we paid tribute to Roberta -- prematurely, as it turned out. I was reminded of that at the funeral, when the worship team began with "The Battle Hymn of the Republic." We also sang that one at her first memorial, five years ago.
So today in our church, we reflected on that particular song. In case you are not familiar with this particular hymn, here are the words:
Mine eyes have seen the glory
Of the coming of the Lord
He is trampling out the vintage
Where the grapes of wrath are stored
He has loosed the fateful lightning
Of His terrible swift sword
His truth is marching on
Glory, glory, hallelujah
Glory, glory, hallelujah
Glory, glory, hallelujah
Our God is marching on
He has sounded form the trumpet
That shall never call retreat
He is sifting out the hearts of men
Before His judgment-seat
Oh, be swift, my soul
To answer him be jubilant, my feet
Our God is marching on
Glory, glory, hallelujah
Glory, glory, hallelujah
Glory, glory, hallelujah
Our God is marching on
In the beauty of the lilies
Christ was born across the sea
With a glory in his bosom
That transfigures you and me
As he died to make men holy
Let us live to make men free
While God is marching on
Glory, glory, hallelujah
Glory, glory, hallelujah
Glory, glory, hallelujah
Our God is marching on
We talked about the pictures of Jesus that we find in the Scriptures. We're walking (slowly) through Luke, trying to understand his picture of Jesus. We talked about how we can see Jesus as a warrior king (like He is portrayed in this hymn) and still get him completely wrong. We read a story from the book of 2 Maccabees about a mother and her seven sons who were cruelly tortured and killed by Antiochus IV and what we might be able to learn from that. We cried at several points in the discussion. We said some profound things; we said some inane things. We laughed. We prayed. We asked a lot of questions and came up with a few answers (that's our modus operandi). We wrestled with who this Jesus is and what He is asking us to be.
We're an interesting group, this church I attend. We meet in a home. We say words that aren't really church-appropriate. We don't believe any one of us has all the answers -- especially not the "pastor." We walk out with more questions than we came in to church with. And yet it is sacred space. Holy ground. Kingdom.
I am always grateful for the community.
Today, I was grateful for the experience.
I wish you could have been there.
I would love to give you the lowdown on all of these events, but my goals are ONE blog per week, not FOUR. The flooding would be the easiest story to tell, but that doesn't mean it's the best one to tell. The shower story is complicated by a backstory that needs to be told at a later time, if at all. And I'm still processing the funeral of the late, great Roberta Carman. But something that happened at that funeral leads me into my story today.
We all thought Roberta was going to die over five years ago. So much so that we devoted an entire Sunday morning 8:15 classic service to remembering her. Her family was mostly in town, so we asked them what songs she might want sung and we paid tribute to Roberta -- prematurely, as it turned out. I was reminded of that at the funeral, when the worship team began with "The Battle Hymn of the Republic." We also sang that one at her first memorial, five years ago.
So today in our church, we reflected on that particular song. In case you are not familiar with this particular hymn, here are the words:
Mine eyes have seen the glory
Of the coming of the Lord
He is trampling out the vintage
Where the grapes of wrath are stored
He has loosed the fateful lightning
Of His terrible swift sword
His truth is marching on
Glory, glory, hallelujah
Glory, glory, hallelujah
Glory, glory, hallelujah
Our God is marching on
He has sounded form the trumpet
That shall never call retreat
He is sifting out the hearts of men
Before His judgment-seat
Oh, be swift, my soul
To answer him be jubilant, my feet
Our God is marching on
Glory, glory, hallelujah
Glory, glory, hallelujah
Glory, glory, hallelujah
Our God is marching on
In the beauty of the lilies
Christ was born across the sea
With a glory in his bosom
That transfigures you and me
As he died to make men holy
Let us live to make men free
While God is marching on
Glory, glory, hallelujah
Glory, glory, hallelujah
Glory, glory, hallelujah
Our God is marching on
We talked about the pictures of Jesus that we find in the Scriptures. We're walking (slowly) through Luke, trying to understand his picture of Jesus. We talked about how we can see Jesus as a warrior king (like He is portrayed in this hymn) and still get him completely wrong. We read a story from the book of 2 Maccabees about a mother and her seven sons who were cruelly tortured and killed by Antiochus IV and what we might be able to learn from that. We cried at several points in the discussion. We said some profound things; we said some inane things. We laughed. We prayed. We asked a lot of questions and came up with a few answers (that's our modus operandi). We wrestled with who this Jesus is and what He is asking us to be.
We're an interesting group, this church I attend. We meet in a home. We say words that aren't really church-appropriate. We don't believe any one of us has all the answers -- especially not the "pastor." We walk out with more questions than we came in to church with. And yet it is sacred space. Holy ground. Kingdom.
I am always grateful for the community.
Today, I was grateful for the experience.
I wish you could have been there.
Wednesday, January 27, 2016
Lord, I'm Tired
I'm a pretty emotional dude. When I was preaching and leading worship in the institutional church, rarely would a Sunday go by when I wouldn't find myself choked up by the emotion of the moment. Certain stories or songs or situations would hit me in the gut and I would lose the ability to speak or sing, overcome by emotion. It kind of became what I was known for.
Over the years, the songs that choke me up have changed. I remember a season when my good friends Mark and Connie White were having lots of problems with their children's inability to have children. During that time, "Blessed Be Your Name" was an impossibility for me to sing, especially when they were in the sanctuary. "You give and take away" became a series of sobs and silences. When my life blew up in the summer of 2004, I couldn't get through "Everything" by Lifehouse. Literally cried my way through a special music at church. "Victory in Jesus" was one of mom's faves, and my dad and I both struggled through that chorus at mom's funeral. I inherited my vocal volume from my father, and it must have been quite and auditory spectacle (is that even possible?!) for the people on stage at mom's funeral. Here dad and I were, sitting in the front row belting out this great hymn; then, at the same time, we got choked up and unable to sing, and the decibel level had to drop by about half!
The flip-side of that type of emotion was also a characteristic of my worship leading. I could laugh and rejoice and celebrate with the best of them during worship. Give me a set with the right David Crowder songs, and I would be having the time of my life, with or without you. "Undignfied." "No One Like You." "Wholly Yours." We had so much fun with those tunes.
But there is one old school Crowder song that I have never been able to lead corporately because, every time I try to sing it, I get overwhelmed with the imagery of a God who never leaves or forsakes that I become a blubbering mess. And since it is such an obscure Crowder song, I'm usually the only one who knows it. Which makes it hard for people to sing. I'm listening to it now on Amazon Prime and the lyrics are, again, taking over my emotions. The song is the title track from their under-appreciated "All I Can Say" album. If you haven't heard it before, it's worth a listen. Here's a YouTube link: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=P5L97ygGwok. And here are the lyrics of angst, abandonment, and hope:
Lord, I'm tired
So tired from walking
And Lord, I'm so alone
And Lord, the dark is creeping in, creeping up
To swallow me
I think I'll stop
And rest here a while
And this is all that I can say right now
And this is all that I can give
And this is all that I can say right now
And this is all that I can give
That's my everything
Oh, did you see me crying?
Oh, and didn't you hear me call your name?
Wasn't it you I gave my heart to?
I wish you'd remember where you set it down
And this is all
This is all that I can say right now
I know it's not much
But this is all that I can give
Yeah, that's my everything
This is all that I can say right now, right now
I know it's not much
But this is all that I can give
Yeah, that's my everything
Over the years, the songs that choke me up have changed. I remember a season when my good friends Mark and Connie White were having lots of problems with their children's inability to have children. During that time, "Blessed Be Your Name" was an impossibility for me to sing, especially when they were in the sanctuary. "You give and take away" became a series of sobs and silences. When my life blew up in the summer of 2004, I couldn't get through "Everything" by Lifehouse. Literally cried my way through a special music at church. "Victory in Jesus" was one of mom's faves, and my dad and I both struggled through that chorus at mom's funeral. I inherited my vocal volume from my father, and it must have been quite and auditory spectacle (is that even possible?!) for the people on stage at mom's funeral. Here dad and I were, sitting in the front row belting out this great hymn; then, at the same time, we got choked up and unable to sing, and the decibel level had to drop by about half!
The flip-side of that type of emotion was also a characteristic of my worship leading. I could laugh and rejoice and celebrate with the best of them during worship. Give me a set with the right David Crowder songs, and I would be having the time of my life, with or without you. "Undignfied." "No One Like You." "Wholly Yours." We had so much fun with those tunes.
But there is one old school Crowder song that I have never been able to lead corporately because, every time I try to sing it, I get overwhelmed with the imagery of a God who never leaves or forsakes that I become a blubbering mess. And since it is such an obscure Crowder song, I'm usually the only one who knows it. Which makes it hard for people to sing. I'm listening to it now on Amazon Prime and the lyrics are, again, taking over my emotions. The song is the title track from their under-appreciated "All I Can Say" album. If you haven't heard it before, it's worth a listen. Here's a YouTube link: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=P5L97ygGwok. And here are the lyrics of angst, abandonment, and hope:
Lord, I'm tired
So tired from walking
And Lord, I'm so alone
And Lord, the dark is creeping in, creeping up
To swallow me
I think I'll stop
And rest here a while
And this is all that I can say right now
And this is all that I can give
And this is all that I can say right now
And this is all that I can give
That's my everything
Oh, did you see me crying?
Oh, and didn't you hear me call your name?
Wasn't it you I gave my heart to?
I wish you'd remember where you set it down
And this is all
This is all that I can say right now
I know it's not much
But this is all that I can give
Yeah, that's my everything
This is all that I can say right now, right now
I know it's not much
But this is all that I can give
Yeah, that's my everything
I didn't notice you were standing here
I didn't know that that was you holding me
I didn't notice you were crying too
I didn't know that that was you washing my feet
And this is all
This is all that I can say right now
Oh, I know it's not much
But this is all that I can give
Yeah, That's my everything
This is all that I can say right now, right now
I know it's not much
But this is all that I can give
Yeah, that's my everything
This is all that I can say right now
Oh, I know it's not much
But this is all that I can give
And that's my everything
Yeah, that's my everything
Yeah, that's my everything
Everything
Find the hope in the midst of the darkness. He. Is. There.
Blessings.
Oh, I know it's not much
But this is all that I can give
Yeah, That's my everything
This is all that I can say right now, right now
I know it's not much
But this is all that I can give
Yeah, that's my everything
This is all that I can say right now
Oh, I know it's not much
But this is all that I can give
And that's my everything
Yeah, that's my everything
Yeah, that's my everything
Everything
Find the hope in the midst of the darkness. He. Is. There.
Blessings.
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Thursday, January 14, 2016
Athletics, Workouts, and the Like
Athletics have always played a big role in my life. I grew up in a small town (pop. 450), so sports participation was required of most every student, whether we liked it or not. And I liked it. So I played baseball and basketball for four years of junior high (grades 5-8 were considered junior high) and for four years in high school. I even continued into college, playing two years of baseball and four years of basketball at Lincoln Christian College.
Even into my adult life, athletics played a role. I loved the faculty vs. camper softball or basketball game at camp. I remember one year that we lost the softball game. I was hitting and the little 9th grade girl that was pitching kept getting closer and closer to the plate on every pitch. I should have known better, but on like pitch 4 I laid into one. And I crushed it! It was still on the way up when it smacked the pitcher in the head! (She was ok, and I only got a single out of it, got stranded on 2nd base, and we ended up losing by one run. If her head hadn't gotten in the way, I'm convinced we would have won!) I always enjoyed church league softball. Where else do grown, mature Christians make such asses of themselves? But the camaraderie was always the best part of sports. To this day, most of my best friends from college were somehow tied to the baseball or basketball team.
But as I have gotten older, there has been less time for physical activity. I'm busy coaching girls softball teams and girls basketball teams with my daughters. And I just don't have (make?) the time to go to the gym. Besides, I wouldn't know what I was doing at Planet Fitness.
About a year ago, I "met" Tony Horton. Tony is the guy behind P90X and P90X3, two of the programs that have revolutionized home fitness. I looked at myself (as I approached 40) and realized that I needed to do something, so I borrowed P90X from a friend and gave it a try. I enjoyed the diversity of the workouts, but most of them were still too long (60-90 minutes each) to fit into my schedule. But when I heard about his P90X3 video series (every workout lasts 30 minutes), I knew I would have a better chance of making that work. So I bought the DVD set and am working through it as a part of my 2016 goals.
Tony is a great fitness instructor for me. He is uber-competitive (especially when it comes to pull ups) and he's kind of an arrogant jerk. But right when I think his conceit is too much, he drops in an encouraging statement that keeps me going for that last 5 minutes. He is witty and self-effacing, but you can tell that he believes in his program and that it has worked wonders for his fitness. He is a great video coach for me! I'm not sure I would like him as much in person, because I'm pretty sure he would point out just how horrible I am at most of the exercises.
My goal is to make it through the 90 days of P90X3 and then reevaluate what I need to do next. I am terrible at most of the exercises, hate all of the exercises, and am so glad to be challenged every day by Tony Horton.
And I'll ask you, reader. Do you have someone like Tony Horton in your life? It doesn't have to be fitness-related. But do you have someone who is an expert in something that you want to get better at who is challenging you to be better? Do you have someone who doesn't particularly care what you think about them because they see something in you that needs to be brought out? I mean, I never knew what yoga WAS until P90X, and it is now my favorite exercise of the bunch. I am learning and growing and becoming a better me because of someone who I would probably otherwise never hang out with. I think all of us need at least one person like that. Probably more than one.
Even into my adult life, athletics played a role. I loved the faculty vs. camper softball or basketball game at camp. I remember one year that we lost the softball game. I was hitting and the little 9th grade girl that was pitching kept getting closer and closer to the plate on every pitch. I should have known better, but on like pitch 4 I laid into one. And I crushed it! It was still on the way up when it smacked the pitcher in the head! (She was ok, and I only got a single out of it, got stranded on 2nd base, and we ended up losing by one run. If her head hadn't gotten in the way, I'm convinced we would have won!) I always enjoyed church league softball. Where else do grown, mature Christians make such asses of themselves? But the camaraderie was always the best part of sports. To this day, most of my best friends from college were somehow tied to the baseball or basketball team.
But as I have gotten older, there has been less time for physical activity. I'm busy coaching girls softball teams and girls basketball teams with my daughters. And I just don't have (make?) the time to go to the gym. Besides, I wouldn't know what I was doing at Planet Fitness.
About a year ago, I "met" Tony Horton. Tony is the guy behind P90X and P90X3, two of the programs that have revolutionized home fitness. I looked at myself (as I approached 40) and realized that I needed to do something, so I borrowed P90X from a friend and gave it a try. I enjoyed the diversity of the workouts, but most of them were still too long (60-90 minutes each) to fit into my schedule. But when I heard about his P90X3 video series (every workout lasts 30 minutes), I knew I would have a better chance of making that work. So I bought the DVD set and am working through it as a part of my 2016 goals.
Tony is a great fitness instructor for me. He is uber-competitive (especially when it comes to pull ups) and he's kind of an arrogant jerk. But right when I think his conceit is too much, he drops in an encouraging statement that keeps me going for that last 5 minutes. He is witty and self-effacing, but you can tell that he believes in his program and that it has worked wonders for his fitness. He is a great video coach for me! I'm not sure I would like him as much in person, because I'm pretty sure he would point out just how horrible I am at most of the exercises.
My goal is to make it through the 90 days of P90X3 and then reevaluate what I need to do next. I am terrible at most of the exercises, hate all of the exercises, and am so glad to be challenged every day by Tony Horton.
And I'll ask you, reader. Do you have someone like Tony Horton in your life? It doesn't have to be fitness-related. But do you have someone who is an expert in something that you want to get better at who is challenging you to be better? Do you have someone who doesn't particularly care what you think about them because they see something in you that needs to be brought out? I mean, I never knew what yoga WAS until P90X, and it is now my favorite exercise of the bunch. I am learning and growing and becoming a better me because of someone who I would probably otherwise never hang out with. I think all of us need at least one person like that. Probably more than one.
Tuesday, January 5, 2016
Some Goals for 2016
At the end of 2015, I had the privilege of sitting through the funeral of a friend. In my line of work, funerals are a part of the package, but this was for a friend who was not on our hospice. His wife was one of my co-workers for almost ten years, so I got to know Don through that. However, I came to realize that I really didn't know Don at all. About ten years before I met him, he had a stroke that forever altered who he was. The Don that I knew was only a shadow of the man that was remembered that day.
That remembrance got me thinking. (All funerals should be an opportunity for reflection, after all.) Don had his stroke at age 60. For me, that's only 19 years down the road. If something were to happen to me in 20 years (or less), what would I look back and remember of my life? Lots of time at the office? Lots of saying "no" to my kids in order to work for that elusive financial security? Lots of late nights worrying and long days working?
As I have grown older, New Year's Day has become my favorite holiday. As I continue to work out my faith, I become more and more convinced that my "dominant image" of Jesus is the Redeemer, the one who makes all things new. A new year is a natural time for new things to happen and for old things to pass away. And rather than make resolutions, I choose to make goals -- tangible, measurable, achievable goals. (One goal for 2016 is to blog weekly. So far, so good.) This year includes some REALLY seismic goals, so I've been told that the best way to achieve them is to proclaim them and then allow your community to hold you to them. Over the coming weeks in this blog, I will lay out some of those goals. This first one is a biggie, so I thought I would devote my first blog of 2016 to it.
I woke up a few weeks ago and realized that I have four more years with my oldest daughter under my roof. Six years left with the 12-year-old. And the family dynamics of four children in a blended family have proven challenging, especially since I have four active kids in four different schools. So a change is in the works.
Before I lay those out, please know that I love the company I work for, Accolade Hospice, I love the people I work with and for, I love hospice work. I hope to continue my partnership with Accolade long into the future. I have learned so much about life by being around people with terminal diagnoses and the people that care for them. When I left the "church system" four years ago (THAT will be a topic for another blog), I wasn't sure that I could provide for my family outside of that system. The last four years have proven that I absolutely can.
They've also shown me that, when it comes to vocation, I am a little ADD. I have done the hospice thing and the t-shirt thing. I've done some book buying and selling. I've done some worship leading and some preaching. And I have enjoyed aspects of everything that I have done. But the one piece that I'm not really wired for is a 9-to-5, M-F office job. I can make it work when I have to, but it is not my preference. (I'm also not a big fan of business casual, but that's not a surprise to anyone reading this.)
So, there are some changes coming down the pike. Accolade is a very generous company and I am glad to be a part of that team. But I am looking at hopefully transitioning to a different role, which will require that I replace some income somehow. One of the arms of this plan has to do with my t-shirt job with Yahwear (www.facebook.com/yahwear). My hope is that, by pouring more time into marketing and customer relations, I can bring in a good chunk more business for that company. If you need custom t-shirts, polo shirts, promo items, etc., shoot me an email (dave@yahwear.net) and I'll take care of you!
The second arm of the plan is a network marketing gig. I sat down with an old friend to talk about the pros and cons of network marketing, and she convinced me that I could be successful at it. And she signed me up to work with her. I am officially a distributor for It Works! Now, I am still learning the company and the products, but I am excited about the possibilities! More than anything, I am hoping that this frees Wendy and me up to spend more quality time with our (soon-to-be-grown) kids and to spend more quality time together.
Over the course of the next few months (and beyond) you'll see a lot of posts (FB, Instagram, Twitter) from me trying to grow that business. I'll be looking for two types of people -- people that want to try some new products and give me some testimonies to be able to tell (Wendy and I can't use ALL the products) and people who want to jump on board with me and achieve some dreams and goals that go along with a successful It Works! business. My aforementioned friend moved from owning a brick-and-mortar business to just doing It Works! within a year of starting, so it can be done. It's going to require a lot of effort, but I think we can get there. My goal is to transition at Accolade by May of this year, so I have to get after it.
I never would have imagined this path for myself -- network marketing, It Works!, hospice -- none of it. But I am excited about what the future holds. If you are at all interested in what I'm up to, drop me an email (dave@raintreepm.org or dave@yahwear.org). If you're curious about It Works! and interested in knowing more, check out our product line at my website: http://davedrake.myitworks.com/ If you're up for a cup of coffee to catch up, I'm down with that, too. You can call or text me at 806-773-8413.
2016 is shaping up to be a fun year. I'll tell you more about it next time!
That remembrance got me thinking. (All funerals should be an opportunity for reflection, after all.) Don had his stroke at age 60. For me, that's only 19 years down the road. If something were to happen to me in 20 years (or less), what would I look back and remember of my life? Lots of time at the office? Lots of saying "no" to my kids in order to work for that elusive financial security? Lots of late nights worrying and long days working?
As I have grown older, New Year's Day has become my favorite holiday. As I continue to work out my faith, I become more and more convinced that my "dominant image" of Jesus is the Redeemer, the one who makes all things new. A new year is a natural time for new things to happen and for old things to pass away. And rather than make resolutions, I choose to make goals -- tangible, measurable, achievable goals. (One goal for 2016 is to blog weekly. So far, so good.) This year includes some REALLY seismic goals, so I've been told that the best way to achieve them is to proclaim them and then allow your community to hold you to them. Over the coming weeks in this blog, I will lay out some of those goals. This first one is a biggie, so I thought I would devote my first blog of 2016 to it.
I woke up a few weeks ago and realized that I have four more years with my oldest daughter under my roof. Six years left with the 12-year-old. And the family dynamics of four children in a blended family have proven challenging, especially since I have four active kids in four different schools. So a change is in the works.
Before I lay those out, please know that I love the company I work for, Accolade Hospice, I love the people I work with and for, I love hospice work. I hope to continue my partnership with Accolade long into the future. I have learned so much about life by being around people with terminal diagnoses and the people that care for them. When I left the "church system" four years ago (THAT will be a topic for another blog), I wasn't sure that I could provide for my family outside of that system. The last four years have proven that I absolutely can.
They've also shown me that, when it comes to vocation, I am a little ADD. I have done the hospice thing and the t-shirt thing. I've done some book buying and selling. I've done some worship leading and some preaching. And I have enjoyed aspects of everything that I have done. But the one piece that I'm not really wired for is a 9-to-5, M-F office job. I can make it work when I have to, but it is not my preference. (I'm also not a big fan of business casual, but that's not a surprise to anyone reading this.)
So, there are some changes coming down the pike. Accolade is a very generous company and I am glad to be a part of that team. But I am looking at hopefully transitioning to a different role, which will require that I replace some income somehow. One of the arms of this plan has to do with my t-shirt job with Yahwear (www.facebook.com/yahwear). My hope is that, by pouring more time into marketing and customer relations, I can bring in a good chunk more business for that company. If you need custom t-shirts, polo shirts, promo items, etc., shoot me an email (dave@yahwear.net) and I'll take care of you!
The second arm of the plan is a network marketing gig. I sat down with an old friend to talk about the pros and cons of network marketing, and she convinced me that I could be successful at it. And she signed me up to work with her. I am officially a distributor for It Works! Now, I am still learning the company and the products, but I am excited about the possibilities! More than anything, I am hoping that this frees Wendy and me up to spend more quality time with our (soon-to-be-grown) kids and to spend more quality time together.
Over the course of the next few months (and beyond) you'll see a lot of posts (FB, Instagram, Twitter) from me trying to grow that business. I'll be looking for two types of people -- people that want to try some new products and give me some testimonies to be able to tell (Wendy and I can't use ALL the products) and people who want to jump on board with me and achieve some dreams and goals that go along with a successful It Works! business. My aforementioned friend moved from owning a brick-and-mortar business to just doing It Works! within a year of starting, so it can be done. It's going to require a lot of effort, but I think we can get there. My goal is to transition at Accolade by May of this year, so I have to get after it.
I never would have imagined this path for myself -- network marketing, It Works!, hospice -- none of it. But I am excited about what the future holds. If you are at all interested in what I'm up to, drop me an email (dave@raintreepm.org or dave@yahwear.org). If you're curious about It Works! and interested in knowing more, check out our product line at my website: http://davedrake.myitworks.com/ If you're up for a cup of coffee to catch up, I'm down with that, too. You can call or text me at 806-773-8413.
2016 is shaping up to be a fun year. I'll tell you more about it next time!
Thursday, February 6, 2014
Friends
One of the things that I enjoy about Facebook is the
ability to keep up with what’s happening in my friend’s lives without having to
work very hard. I can see pictures of
this friend’s trip to Disney and follow the exploits of the child of this
friend without ever interacting with those friends. (One of the things I HATE about Facebook is
how opinionated and stupid some of my friends sound with their posts and links,
but that’s a topic for another blog.)
As I am writing today, I am on a train from Fort Worth to
Lincoln, IL, to spend some time with my mom, who is on hospice. I woke up this morning in St. Louis and
decided to move to the Observation Car to see the beauty of Southern/Central
Illinois in the winter (note sarcasm, please).
About 7:30 this morning, my phone rang and the name was one of an old
friend that I haven’t talked to in entirely too long. We chatted about his recent trip to South
America, my mom’s illness, church work, my future plans, the upcoming Super
Bowl, etc. It was a much-needed talk.
And it got me thinking.
Too often in our connected/digital/technology-driven world, we are
satisfied with the illusion of community instead of meaningful community. I would contend that, despite our ability to
easily connect with friends and loved ones in unprecedented ways (Facebook,
blogs, Twitter, FaceTime), we are lonelier than we’ve ever been. In a world of fantasy sports and fantasy sex,
we have settled for fantasy community.
And our souls are more damaged because of it.
My friend, Steven, simply used his morning commute to
reconnect with a friend. And it made my
day. Seeing pics of his sweet family on
Facebook is one thing; hearing the love in his voice for his amazing wife and
beautiful kid is something entirely different.
And sacred.
And real.
And just what I needed to hear in the midst of a
difficult stretch.
Friday, January 31, 2014
Goals
“Time sure flies when you don’t know where you are on the
map.”
Derek Webb, “Eye of the Hurricane”
As 2013 flipped to 2014, I had many conversations with
friends about resolutions and goals. I
shared some devotional thoughts at our company staff meeting about the horrible
follow-through percentages when it comes to resolutions. And I challenged our employees to set goals
instead of making resolutions.
Resolutions make for good January conversation fodder; goals are more
concrete and come with a plan, ideally.
I take our 1-1/2 year old son to school most every
morning. Our ritual includes listening
to Derek Webb’s CD “I Was Wrong, I’m Sorry, and I Love You.” (Please withhold your judgment regarding what
I am doing theologically to my son. I’m
hoping to nurture a thinking child.) We
do tracks 5 & 6, then go back to track 2.
Webb is a master of the thought-provoking line (“If you’re the only one
who runs a race, it might be to get away” and “On that day, we’ll run out of
time for death and tears” come immediately to mind.) and one that hits me every
time I hear it is the quote above – “Time sure flies when you don’t know where
you are on the map.”
I am NOT a planner.
I am a fly-by-the-seat-of-my-pants-and-hope-it-works kind of guy. Usually that leads to a lot of activity and
very little productivity. So I am trying
to change – at least a little bit. My
wife (who IS a planner/preparer) and I are trying some new things to get things
done – a weekly staff meeting, an allocated spending plan, a monthly menu,
etc. So far, it’s proving helpful. But it’s still January.
I have broken our 2014 goals down into six categories:
personal, financial, family, 8th Day Collective (our church),
reading, and work (Accolade & Yahwear).
Each month I am writing out specific things that I hope to accomplish in
that month, as well as stretch goals and “on the horizon” goals. In January, I accomplished about 50% of my
goals, and 11% of my stretch goals.
While that’s not anything earth-shattering, it sure is better than
having no idea where I am on the map.
One of the goals that I didn’t accomplish in January was
to blog weekly. (I DID, however, blog
weakly.) So this is the first attempt to
make that goal happen in February. I
have a plan for blogging as well, so look for thoughts on hospice and friends,
train rides and books.
Two questions as I wrap this up:
1) What are YOUR goals for 2014 and what kind of plan to
you have to make that happen?
2) What topics would you love to have me start a
discussion about here on the blog?
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